{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Inside out","provider_url":"https:\/\/peternoel.cafeblog.hu","author_name":"Peter Noel","author_url":"https:\/\/peternoel.cafeblog.hu\/author\/peternoelfreemail-hu\/","title":"Peter Noel: Selfie","html":"

(You can read the English version under the Hungarian text.)<\/p>\r\n

Felkelek, s a t\u00fck\u00f6rbe n\u00e9zve meg\u00e9rtem, hogy f\u00e9rfi lettem. V\u00e9remben hordom a kis sr\u00e1cot, aki voltam, de a feln\u0151ttek vil\u00e1ga v\u00e9g\u00fcl el\u00e9rt. Elindulok a v\u00e1rosba, s azon gondolkozom, milyen szerencs\u00e9s vagyok, hogy nem tudok lemondani az \u00e1lmaimr\u00f3l. Ha kell, naponta megm\u00e1szom a rem\u00e9ny hegy\u00e9t, s a cs\u00facsra \u00e9rve a t\u00e1volba tekintek.<\/p>\r\n

A t\u00f6megben haladva a n\u0151ket figyelem. Az egyik \u00e9pp selfie fot\u00f3t k\u00e9sz\u00edt a meg\u00e1ll\u00f3ban, majd gyorsan posztolja. H\u00fasz \u00e9v k\u00f6r\u00fcli lehet. Egy id\u0151ben divat volt a borzalmas v\u00e9kony szem\u00f6ld\u00f6ktetov\u00e1l\u00e1s, most a vastag, festett a men\u0151, s a n\u0151k \u00fagy kenik magukra, mintha b\u00e1rmit is v\u00e1ltoztatna a bels\u0151 \u00e9rt\u00e9keiken, vagy az \u0151ket \u00e9rt meg\u00edt\u00e9ltet\u00e9sen. Azon gondolkozom, vajon tudj\u00e1tok, hogy a norm\u00e1lis f\u00e9rfiak kifejezetten zavar\u00f3nak tartj\u00e1k a sok m\u0171 dolgot rajtatok? Vajon egy pillanatra is elgondolkoztatok-e m\u00e1r, hogy t\u00e9nyleg j\u00f3 \u00f6tlet-e mindig k\u00f6vetni a divat idi\u00f3ta vonat\u00e1t? N\u00e9ha nem lenne jobb kicsit meg\u00e1llni, \u00e9s elt\u0171n\u0151dni? Mondjuk, a napi t\u00edz selfie fot\u00f3 egyike k\u00f6z\u00f6tt.<\/p>\r\n

Mindek\u00f6zben megy a posztol\u00e1s az \u00faj cip\u0151kr\u0151l, a cuki-muki \u00e1llatokr\u00f3l, a men\u0151 \u00e9tteremb\u0151l, a nagy szerelemr\u0151l, aminek tudja fene, mi\u00e9rt, de p\u00e1r h\u00f3nap alatt v\u00e9ge is lesz. Nagyon komoly v\u00e9lem\u00e9nyek ker\u00fclnek fel erk\u00f6lcsr\u0151l, h\u00e1bor\u00fakr\u00f3l, eszm\u00e9kr\u0151l, politik\u00e1r\u00f3l, de igaz\u00e1b\u00f3l semmi sem t\u00f6rt\u00e9nik. Nem csak a vil\u00e1gban, hanem a sz\u00edvekben sem. Mintha legbel\u00fcl mindenki tudn\u00e1 mi a helyes, de m\u00e9gsem v\u00e1ltoztatunk semmin. Ha fontosabb a napi selfie fot\u00f3d ann\u00e1l, mintsem, hogy seg\u00edts egy id\u0151s n\u00e9ninek a v\u00e1s\u00e1rl\u00e1ssal, aki az utc\u00e1n \u00e1rulva pr\u00f3b\u00e1l t\u00fal\u00e9lni, akkor nincs mit tenni. Akkor a h\u00fclyes\u00e9g gy\u0151z\u00f6tt. \u00c9rtitek ezt?<\/p>\r\n

Tudj\u00e1tok, nem a k\u00e9peket kellene folyton retus\u00e1lni, nem a szem\u00f6ld\u00f6k\u00f6t kellene \u201edivatosan\u201d vastagra festeni, nem a melletek k\u00f6z\u00e9 kellene fot\u00f3zni, \u00e9s cs\u00fccs\u00f6r\u00edtve idi\u00f3t\u00e1t csin\u00e1lni magatokb\u00f3l. Ink\u00e1bb a lelketeket kellene szebb\u00e9 tenni. Esetleg tanulni \u00e9s fejl\u0151dni sem \u00e1rtana. Vagy \u00e9rdekesebb\u00e9, m\u0171veltebb\u00e9, esetleg viccesebb\u00e9 v\u00e1lni. C\u00e9lokat, \u00e1lmokat kit\u0171zni, ami\u00e9rt harcoltok. Megtanulni, hogy m\u00e1sok meg\u00f6lel\u00e9se, seg\u00edt\u00e9se sokkal fontosabb, mintsem, hogy milyen j\u00f3l siker\u00fclt a r\u00f3latok be\u00e1ll\u00edtott fot\u00f3, amely k\u00f6sz\u00f6n\u0151 viszonyban sincs a smink alatti val\u00f3s\u00e1ggal.<\/p>\r\n

Nem akarunk agyonra festett, \u00e1talak\u00edtott m\u0171 n\u0151ket. Nem akarunk t\u00f6k\u00e9letes alak\u00fa, folyton magukat fot\u00f3z\u00f3, saj\u00e1t magukba szerelmes l\u00e1nyokat. \u00c9s nem akarunk olyan asszonyokat, akik k\u00e9ptelenek megbar\u00e1tkozni az id\u0151 m\u00fal\u00e1s\u00e1val. Az igazi n\u0151k nem ilyenek. Felismered \u0151ket egyetlen mozdulatukr\u00f3l. S ha lefot\u00f3zod \u0151ket, szel\u00edd mosolyukb\u00f3l m\u00e9g nyolcvan\u00e9ves korukban is l\u00e1tod, hogy eg\u00e9sz \u00e9let\u00fckben val\u00f3di\u00a0n\u0151k voltak. \u00c9s tudj\u00e1tok, mit? Csak a h\u00fcly\u00e9k keresnek t\u00f6k\u00e9letes n\u0151ket. A val\u00f3di f\u00e9rfi nem erre v\u00e1gyik.<\/p>\r\n

Mert bels\u0151 \u00e9rt\u00e9keinket nem az Interneten hordjuk. A saj\u00e1t \u00e9letedben, a saj\u00e1t val\u00f3s\u00e1godban tal\u00e1lod meg \u0151ket. Ha ezt nem l\u00e1tod, akkor te vagy az, ki k\u00e9pes lesz teljesen leborotv\u00e1lni a szem\u00f6ld\u00f6k\u00e9t, amikor \u00e9pp az lesz a divat. De ezen a val\u00f3di f\u00e9rfiak s a val\u00f3di n\u0151k\u2026 csak nevetni\u00a0fognak.<\/p>\r\n

Az utc\u00e1n s\u00e9t\u00e1lok, \u00e9s elmosolyodok. Megm\u00e1szom \u00fajra a rem\u00e9ny hegy\u00e9t, s a t\u00e1volba tekintek. Mellettem sok n\u0151 \u00e9s f\u00e9rfi s\u00e9t\u00e1l el\u2026 norm\u00e1lis szem\u00f6ld\u00f6kkel \u00e9s \u00f6n\u00e9rt\u00e9kel\u00e9ssel. Van h\u00e1t m\u00e9g rem\u00e9ny. :) ;) \u2013\u00a0Peter Noel<\/a>,\u00a0Peter Noel Privat<\/a>, P\u00e9ter Noel<\/a>. Szerz\u0151i \u00e9s minden jog fenntartva. Megoszthat\u00f3 v\u00e1ltoztat\u00e1s n\u00e9lk\u00fcl, mindennem\u0171 egy\u00e9b felhaszn\u00e1l\u00e1sa enged\u00e9lyk\u00f6teles. Sz\u00f3val, ha ezek ut\u00e1n is leny\u00falod a sz\u00f6vegeimet, megkereslek, \u00e9s bek\u00f6lt\u00f6z\u00f6k hozz\u00e1d t\u00f6bb h\u00f3napra. Biztos, ezt akarod? :)<\/p>\r\n

\"meryl-streep-1001-05\"<\/a><\/p>\r\n

When I wake up in the morning and look into the mirror I understand that I became a man. I was carrying in my blood the little boy, who I used to be, but finally the adults' world has reached me. I leave into the city and thinking about how lucky I am that I can not give up on my dreams. If needed I climb every day on the mountain of hope, and when I'm at the peak I look into the distance.<\/p>\r\n

Walking in the crowd I am watching the women. One of them is taking a selfie in the bus stop of herself, and posts it quickly. She is around twenty. There was a time when it was trendy to have terribly thin tattooed eyebrows, and now the thick painted one is the cool, and the women are painting these on themselves as if it would have changed anything on their inner values, or the perceptions of them. I'm thinking if you know that normal men actually find it disturbing the lots of artificial stuff on you? Have you thought about it for a second if it's really a good idea to follow the train of idiot fashion trends? Sometimes it would be better to stop and think for a second. Maybe some time in between some of the daily ten selfies.<\/p>\r\n

In the meantime the posting is keep going about new shoes, cutie little animals, cool restaurants, big love stories that hell knows, but ends after a few months. There are very serious opinions about morals, wars, notions, politics but nothing really happens. Not only in the world but in the hearts either. As if inside everyone would know what's right, but no one changes anything. If it's more important to take selfies than to help an old woman grocery shopping, who is trying to survive by selling goods on the streets, then there is nothing to do. Then stupidity won. Do you get it?<\/p>\r\n

You know, you shouldn't be editing your photos all the time, or paint your eyebrows 'trendily' thick, you shouldn't be taking pictures of your breasts, and primping yourself into an idiot. You should make your soul more beautiful. Or maybe studying and growing could be useful too. Or to become more interesting, more cultured, or maybe funnier. Setting goals and dreams that you fight for. Learning that giving a hug to others, helping others is more important than how well a staged group photo turns out, that is not even close to the reality under the make-ups.<\/p>\r\n

We do not want painted, and altered artificial women! We don't want perfect bodied, constant selfie maker girls who are in love with themselves! And we don't want wives who are unable to deal with the passing time! The real women are not like that. You can recognize them from a single move. And when you take a picture of them, you can see from their gentle smile even when they are eighty years old that they have been a real woman all their lives. And you know what? Only the stupid are looking for the perfect girl. A real man does not desire this.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n

Because our inner values we do not carry over the Internet. You will find it in your own life, in your own reality. If you don't see thes then you are the one who will be able to shave their full eybrows when this isin fashion. However on this the real men and women... will laugh at.<\/p>\r\n

I'm walking on the street and smiling. I climb again the mountain of hope and am looking into the distance. There are many women and men walk away beside me... with normal eyebrows and self-esteem. So, there is still hope. :) ;) \u2013\u00a0Peter Noel<\/a>,\u00a0P\u00e9ter Noel<\/a>,\u00a0Peter Noel Privat<\/a>\u00a0Copyright and all rights reserved. Shareable without modification, any other use requires authorization. Well, if you steal my texts after these, I find you, and I move in to you onto more months. Are you sure, is this what you want? 🙂<\/p>","type":"rich"}